Masarap na mahirap maging Nanay

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Submitted by Milms on Thu, 11/08/2007 - 6:11am

Masakit maging Ina lalo na kung sabay-sabay na gahelelang ang mga kahakáan(i mean mga kaakian).....he he he!Bag i man na sarong dosena aki ko.....ha ha ha ha

Uy na miss ko kamo gabos. Medyo napaaban-abanan na na dai ako naka log-in uya ta naghelang 2 aki ko. Enot so matua.....nahawa sa Daycare tapos nahawa niya naman so saday tapos sa ngonian sabay na sindang igwang abo pati sip-on dahil sa panahon uya. Malipot na uya. Sa laog pan o ning hallong naka-heater na up to 22°C tapos pagluwas mga 5°C na sana, kung minsan 0°C. Kaya uso na naman uya ang helang na ini. Mayad nganing dai ako nauullakitan kan duwa kong aki........
Huhh! na mi-miss ko lugod ang buhay sato diyan sa Pilipinas. At least diyan sato kadakull sanang makatuwang saimo mag-asikaso sa mga aki. Hay......buhay ning nanalladay abroad?!

‹ Happy birthday Manay bim! Pan-0 man? ›

maging nanay?

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Submitted by adin on Sun, 11/11/2007 - 2:13am.

Hi milms....yeah masarap na mahirap ang maging nanay but i wouldnt trade it for anything in this world. We the mother are the one who has the hardest job in the world.... Pag nasasaktan mga anak natin dobling sakit nararamdaman natin. Pag nagkakasakit sila we'r wishing na sana tayo na lang. If there's a magic wond to cast away all the tears, fears, heartache or if we could point them into the direction that we want them to be, we would do it in the heartbeat.......but the reality is..as much as we want them to be safe and happy, they have to learn.
I am a mother of a wonderful little boy......imagine doing everything on your own plus a full time job here abroad. He's dad will be coming soon to be with us. Until then...........

live like there's no tomorrow, love like it is the first time, laugh to ur hearts content......for life is too short!

Hands on Mom

Submitted by hdebbi on Sun, 11/11/2007 - 3:00pm.

Hi Adin and Milms...agree ako, masarap ang maging Nanay! i was childless for almost 8 years and when i joined my husband here, got pregnant two in a row, boy and girl (born in May 99 & 2000). CS pa ako and a day after i was asked to start walking around my hosp room, breast feed and shower alone...waahhhh. Walang support system...walang katulong at lahat ng kaibigan ng asawa ko puro lalaki (though pinagluluto nila ako..)...pero i can proudly say that until now memorized ko every scar that they have, kahit na kulay ng poo poo nila and we still sleep in one king size bed..holding hands. I admit that had i stayed and not gave up my job in manila, i might not be enjoying the simple joys of being a mom, baka breakfast lng kami mgkakasama at baka tulog na sila pag uwi ko sa gabi from work. Now am working again (This is just to satisfy my own personal need of earning my own money as I have been used to since graduation from college.) but i settled for a job which i need not think about when i reach home at 5pm (I still get to cook dinner for them and help them with their homeworks). No regrets...

mom

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Submitted by adin on Mon, 11/12/2007 - 12:00am.

Hi hdebbi, being a mom is the greatest feeling in the world. My husband wasnt present physically when i had our baby. He was at the end of the line at the other side of the world giving me support and guiding me from the moment i started labor (18 hrs.)until we welcome our baby. Though he wasnt around it feels like he was, and i was so lucky to have my other mom around. She is my angel who was with me and helping us from time to time. She is our wind beneath our wings.. True i dont think i could ever forget every little detail of little events from the moment he was born. Pinagtatawanan nga ako ng kapatid ko kc sinisave ko every little thing when it comes to our baby. Ngayon he's so full of energy. Everytime he calls me mom kinikiliti ako.. it's a feeling of joy and pride...something i cant explain that feels so wonderful.....a love unconditional.

live like there's no tomorrow, love like it is the first time, laugh to ur hearts content......for life is too short!